Okay..This is quite long and I dunno whether this will sound really stupid or cheesy,but I think I really like this guy..
So let's just say that I'm from country X(Not gonna say where exactly,otherwise it would be too obvious)and only moved to England when I was about 11-12 years old.
Basically,I've been friends with this guy(he used to go to my primary school in country X),on fb since 2010,but we never really talked much.
We only started talking recently,about a month and a half or so,and we became quite close friends.
(Btw,I admitted to him that I used to have a crush on him,and coincidentally,he used to aswell)
We'd talk on whatsapp/fb mostly everyday.
The problem is,I realised a couple weeks ago,that I've started developing feelings for him..
Whenever we'd talk about our old primary friends,he'd tease me and say that this one girl was pretty and compliment her etc,and I'd get jealous. I think he could notice that and could probably tell that I like him but he never said anything.
So last week,I finally decided to tell him what I feel for him.
I asked him to come on skype,and told him that I've started developing feelings for him.
He was quiet for like 1 minute,then said "I'll have to think about it."
I said,"Do you feel the same way..?"
He had to hang up after that coz his brother came into the room,so he messaged me saying "I think I kinda like you,but let's just remain good friends"
I was a bit upset,and weeped a little,but I said it's fine,coz I don't want our friendship to be affected.
Then we went back to talking on whatsapp,and on the same night he said "Hey wait,I think I do like you"
I told him he must be really crazy for that and he said he meant it.
2 days later,he whatsapped me saying he wants to tell me something really important on skype.
So I said fine. But we ended up with him saying this to me on fb.
He said "Hey I only said I like you coz you felt bad and you cried. But when I saw that you care and get worried for me,I felt guilty and had to tell you the truth."
I replied,saying I knew he didn't mean what he said coz this is no way to propose a girl!
However,he did say he has feelings for me,and he'd always say that I'm the best a guy can get/I'm really nice,beautiful and caring.
He also said "I like you" several times,but I'm not sure in what sense he meant it..
And today when I was talking to him on whatsapp,I asked him what he thought of me when I told him I like him,coz tbh I'm not the type of girl who approaches guys;he's the first one I did this to,coz usually,boys approach me.
He said he doesn't think I'm THOSE kinda girls and precisely said "I still dunno why I said no!"
Ohh and I'm going to country X this Christmas,and he said he'd like to meet up,just the 2 of us if possible,coz I was planning on going out with him,and a group of other friends.
I'm taking this going-out thing as just 2 friends chilling out,not as a date, but I'm really not sure whether it's the long distance that's bothering him,or if he really doesn't feel the same way..
I mean,on the one hand he'd be really sweet and say things like a bf would say to his gf,but on the other hand, he's saying he kinda has feelings for me,but it's just not that intense.
I even asked him whether it was the distance that he was worried about and he said yh..
Am I being completely ridiculous here,and ignoring the fact that he found a really good friend in me,maybe best friends,and that this is pure friendship,or am I missing something out?
Thanks in advance for your advice 
Source: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=2317314
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